Forever am and forever will
Gay marriage should be legal because gay divorce court shows would be fucking hilarious
HERCULES IN THE 2ND GIF OMFG
THIS IS ACTUALLY REALLY IMPORTANT THOUGH
Hercules is THE DEFINITION of a gentleman. Her dress strap slips down and HE PUTS IT BACK UP because he’s like “No, she’s a lady, she deserves my respect. Control yourself. Leave, just leave.”
Imagine if all guys/girls had that much respect for people they were attracted to…the world would be a lot better and safer, I can tell you that.
Also have to remember he’s never had a girl actually hit on him before.
2nd gif: #zeUS TAKE THE WHEEL #I NEED AN ADULT #WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO WITH THIS
if zeus took the wheel this would have ended much differently
HEY WHATS UP?! WANNA BANG??!!
Let’s start here. I wear my scars. Does that mean that I am not worthy of help or acceptance? Does that mean that I am somehow lesser than you as well? Or is your little rant maybe an ill founded judgment?
This is really no place for you to shit on other self injurers. Period. I do not tolerate it. I will not accept it.
Every self injurer gets to decide whether or not to wear their scars. But they get to decide for themselves. You do not get to decide for them and you do not earn the right to shame them just because you don’t wear yours.
And her wearing her scars? It doesn’t mean that she doesn’t deserve support and love from her friends and her loved ones. Of which you are apparently not one.
And above and beyond that, not showing your scars does not make you any better or worse than any other self injurer. Period. It just means that people can’t see your scars.
In other words, take your rant elsewhere. I am here to take care of self injurers. Not to give people like you a platform from which to judge them.
I understand why a lot of people cover up. I’ve been there myself. I personally don’t care anymore if people see new cuts anymore. I went through 5/6 years hiding them and when I moved out of my parents house I could wear whatever I wanted. I just sort of grew used to wearing shorts and t-shirts even if my cuts showed.
Same. And I have some exceptions to that, but for the most part I wear them. Because I want for other self injurers to know that you can live a life and be in the world despite this disorder.
Because I know how comforting it can be to see someone else with scars on a bad day.
So no, I will not be accepting of anyone who slanders other self injurers. I stand in support of people who self harm. Both those who wear their scars and those who don’t.
All this taken into consideration, I know that I find seeing fresh cuts or injuries a major trigger as do other people, which could be something to take into consideration.
I am always in favor of bandaids over fresh wounds. Absolutely. What upsets me is other self injurers behaving as if they have the right to police someone else’s body.
Ok, here’s my problem. Some people (like me) get very triggered by other peoples cuts (especially if they’re fresh). And it’s really harmful when a friend, especially one who knows about your self harm, walks around with theirs showing. I’m not saying that anyone shouldn’t wear theirs, or that there’s anything wrong with wearing them. But if you have a friend who also self harms, I think you should be aware of the effects you’re having on them.
And to me that sounds like you need to work on your own triggers instead of projecting your issues onto other peoples’ bodies.
If you have an agreement with a friend, that’s one thing. But no one is obligated to hide because some mythical person they don’t know might be triggered by their scars. That’s absurd.